I became aware of the term “sex-positive” while studying at the Institute in San Francisco. It’s a fluid term that means different things to different people. For some it means total acceptance of any and all sexual preferances, attitudes and behaviors. A sort of “anything-goes” mentality.

I prefer the definition offered by Lisa Tobin in an article for Planned Parenthood:

• Having a comprehensive definition of sexuality
• Viewing sexual health as a basic human right
• Focusing on the life-enhancing aspects of sexuality as well as attention to the negative aspects
• Being non-judgmental and challenging narrow social constructs
• Using inclusive language rather than value-laden language which makes assumptions based on sexual orientation or gender stereotypes
• Assisting individuals to be aware of the choices involved in sexual decisions

As an educator and advocate, I appreciate this definition’s focus on the positive psychological and physical impacts of sexual expression.

What is your definition of “sex-positive” or do you prefer another term? Maybe you can’t agree with an item (or two or three) on the list above… which one(s)?

References:

Tobin, L. “From Being Sex Positive: Promoting Young People’s Sexual Health.” Health Promotion Atlantic Volume 3, Number 3 (September 1997).