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The Benefits of a Healthy Sex Life

8.16.2009 | Blog, Sexual Health

I have been spending some time this weekend researching for my next appearance on Fox News Rising. I will be doing another segment, this time on “The Health Benefits of Sex.” Yet, I realize now that the title really should be “The Benefits of a Healthy Sex Life” because from what I’ve been reading, those who benefit the most are those who are having it the most.

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We all know that sex is a form of exercise, burning as many as four calories a minute, and that all exercise is good for us. Similar to the effects of any good workout, when we get aroused, our blood pumps at a faster rate. That fresh supply of blood pumping through our body gives our organs a healthy dose of oxygen and rids the body of toxins and waste.

You also get a rush of endorphins after sex, aka the “runners high.” Endorphins, hormone-like chemicals akin to morphine, promote a sense of well-being and alleviate the pain of headaches and migraines, arthritis, and even PMS.

And then there is that lovely hormone oxytocin. Just before orgasm, oxytocin levels surge to five times their normal level. Oxytocin does wonderful things for us. It increases bonding, trust and generosity. It also increases our sense of empathy. It’s the same hormone that is released when a woman breast-feeds her child.

One thing that I found especially interesting is that men benefit most when they’re having regular sex, either alone or with a partner. For instance, men need 3-5 ejaculations a week in order to significantly reduce their chance of a heart attack, stroke, or prostate cancer. What some women may complain of as a “high sex drive” is maybe just his body’s way of keeping him alive!

Of course, it’s not just physical health that is improved by a good sex life. Having a good sex life reaps emotional and spiritual rewards as well. Thankfully, the more sex you have, the longer you’re likely to live — and the longer you’re able to enjoy sex!


Responses

Kimberly Kaye
8.17.2009

My husband & I made a pledge to have sex everyday for the next year as a Valentine’s Day gift to each other. While we haven’t been able to do it everyday since business trips & illness do occasionally get in the way, we rarely miss.

I have seen a vast improvement in our health both physically & mentally. We have both lost weight, have more stamina, & feel closer than ever. That is really saying something after 16 years of marriage.

Becky Knight
8.17.2009

I love that! I think the “sex every day” pledge can be mis-used, but it sounds like it is really working for you guys.

You’ll be living and loving a long time! (People who have sex every day are predicted to live 8 years longer!)

Thanks for posting-

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