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What about you?  What was your first period like?  Was it celebrated or dreaded?  How were you made to feel?  Do you think your first experience with it shaped the way you’ve viewed other life changes or health challenges.

I’d love to hear your stories…

Epilogue:
Birthing my first daughter wasn’t easy.  It took more than 3 hours of pushing and even then my wonderful midwife needed reinforcements.  The hospitalist on duty was a kind and peaceful doctor with silver hair and gentle hands and the magical ability to erase years of bad memories involving male authority figures.  Half an hour later Penelope was born with the blessed help of vacuum extraction.  She had been stuck fast in the birth canal with her hands in her mouth (silly girl).  The machine had also ungraciously and severely torn my vagina.  That lovely man did such a good, compassionate, and thorough job that one day not long ago I realized something astounding to me: in the process, he had also fixed that long ago tear. .

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