Intimately Connected
3.24.2009 | 1 Comment
I love this quote from an article about Debra Haffner,
“Our sexuality and our spirituality are intimately connected,” Haffner told a crowd at the First Unitarian Society in Madison earlier this month. At their best, after all, they share what Haffner called “a common moral vision” — how to love each other and how to treat each other with respect.
Debra is a Unitarian Universalist minister and the author of several books. She was the head of SIECUS (the Sexuality Information and Education Council of the U.S) from 1988 to 2000. She is now the director of the Religious Institute on Sexual Morality, Justice and Healing, the mission of which is to “change the way America understands the relationship of sexuality and religion” — no small undertaking.
Other great quotes:
“Sexuality is creative, good, our bodies are wonderful things, there are many forms of blessed relationships.”
“Our sexuality must be exercised wisely so it is not in service of pain and exploitation.”
“Our sexuality in all its stunning diversity is part of God’s creation.”
I had the chance to meet Debra at the 2007 AASECT (American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists) conference in Charlotte after her plenary session “Sexuality and Religion: What’s the Connection” (which also happens to be the name of her fabulous blog).
I’m sure she doesn’t remember me, but I will remember meeting her. As a young sexologist, she was one of the few “Sex-lebrities” that I wanted to meet (Ian Kerner was the other and I got him to sign a book for me!). Although I don’t know that I agree with her on every issue, I admire her dedication to talking about sexuality and spirituality in a way that is informative, inspiring and healing.
62211 PLENARY SESSION: SEXUALITY AND RELIGION: WHAT’S THE CONNECTION?
